It helps to understand how to put on a cock ring if you can imagine what it might be like to rope a calf. It’s really not that big of a physical feat, but essentially speed and good technique ensure success every time.

Edging — that curious mix of sexual restraint and abandon — is a liminal place in male sexual experience. You’re not here and you’re not there.

Rarely have I thought about breath other than that time I was stuck in a Russian elevator. It’s taken me years to understand how vital breath is to sex.

Coconut oil is likely among the best sex lube around. It has that perfect slick factor, lasts and lasts and is awesome for your skin.

Sexual conversations embolden us, seek embrace with another and protect our sexual relationship from injury while they compose a repertoire that provides us with virtual sexual improvisation and thrill.

Like a naked rifle squad, we think of guy sex drive as little more than a hard-on, a target and the relief of a well-aimed load. Male sex myths busted!

Sex is always about truth. Sex drives you naked to the edge of a high precipice of self-revealing where you show yourself. Sex is about truth or dare.

We pee in the woods, drink beer, swim naked and then later tell the absolute truth about ourselves. We can take the bags off our heads and show that we’re no different than the guy sitting in the same glow of a smokey camp fire.

How sex remains a mystery among all these voices — well, it still remains a mystery. I think we need to do a better job of choosing those who teach us sex. Not about sex — those who teach us sex.