Sexual Growth

Guys are made for discovery — sex is no exception. While our culture throws log after log on our sexual trail, guys will fulfill their quest to thrive in their own sexuality.

Explore the Orgasmic Guy site by topic through the descriptive titles on the. Here’s a little secret. The mystery of male sexuality doesn’t go away. But hey, that’s good news!

Guys are surprised to learn that male sexuality isn’t really only about ejaculations, though most of us feel most sexual when we’re aroused and come. Our sexuality is most powerfully and profoundly projected through our relationships — with ourselves, with our lovers and with God as we understand.

Male masturbation is the first, last and most enduring expression of a guy’s sexuality. Masturbation affirms, cultivates and expresses male sexuality in the most natural and private way. It’s worth paying attention.

You know we give Eve a lot of crap for leading us guys like the pied piper down the lane of original sin. What if Adam had simply said, “Thanks I’m not hungry right now, but can we make love?”

If God created me, my body and my mind, then He created all the sexual passion that’s rushing through me. Don’t tell me it’s a curse, of the devil, or something I’ve just got to “get over”. There’s a reason for it, and I think every guy would do well to find out just why God left him with this raging fire inside. Why the testosterone.

I remember when I was a kid and I’d have an erection in the morning, I had to do acrobats to pee in the toilet. It scared me because I thought something was really wrong, and there was no way I was going to ask anyone about it. Today, I welcome a morning salute.

It never ceases to amaze me what power sexual tension has — sometimes to the point of becoming irrational. And this can be a good thing. In love, concepts like reason, logic and moderation diffuse what we really want and need in a sexual union, namely boundless, wild passion.

I looked over the bank behind me and sure enough there was a rainbow and the birches blazed with yellow and gold in the first light of the morning sun. It all lasted about three minutes. Then the rain quit, and the sun was up, and the rainbow faded.