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The Strange Marriage of Masturbation and Porn

Though, unsettling, porn and masturbation demand a trial separation. We believe there are solo sexual aspirations forgotten, emotions yet unfelt.

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Why Nakedness Is Good For You

Nakedness is the belief that clothing is indeed a mask. It’s in nakedness that we discover honesty with ourselves and others. It’s in nakedness that we feel the unfettered freedom to be and to express our essential selves.

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Why Your Partner Freaks About Your Porn And How To Tell Them Why You Love It

You enjoy porn. Not everyone appreciates your love of porn. How to tell your partner why you love porn and actually see them understand it.

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Why News Fasting Can Reset Your Sex Life

The drip feed of news can keep your erotic energy at a low level. Trying news fasting for only 30 days can revive your sex life. Try it.

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Show Me The Numbers

Even we sensitive, zen-feely dudes consider something as left-brained as frequency a sincere measure of the erotic quality of life.

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Dear Sean When I Was 15

It isn’t your responsibility to relieve people of their weird discomfort with sex as a subject of friendly small talk. Sex is a worthy subject in any kind of company.

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Happy New Year!

Orgasmic Guy will, of course, continue to be my experiment in what living orgasmically means. It will be my voice.

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Sexless Nights, Sexless Days

Why don’t people have sex? A zillion reasons, but you want to know yours. If there’s anything that can make your heart ache, make you sob in your pillow and rehearse scenario after scenario of why and who’s fault, it’s too many nights and days gone sexless.

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Seven Conversations With Your Lover

Sexual conversations embolden us, seek embrace with another and protect our sexual relationship from injury while they compose a repertoire that provides us with virtual sexual improvisation and thrill.