Sex & Society

Contraceptive methods in which guys play an active role, promise far more than just pregnancy protection. What’s possible is enhanced sexual skill, honest sexual conversation with partners, and a liberating departure from a sexual rut.

Be sure that you listen attentively when others remind you of your racism or sexism. Respond with graciousness and a desire to grow. Challenge your own silence and use your voice to defend.

This year, without exception, every person on earth must find ways to process a global crisis and all of the unfamiliar energies that crisis presents. I am repeatedly moving through all of the stages in grief — not necessarily in the proper order.

American adult sex education is un-education. What the hell do you need sex education for? Aren’t you just supposed to know this stuff? What indeed. Here’s how to fill the adult sex education gap.

Anti-masturbation campaigns are as common as nosey neighbors, yet as insidious as a cult. They beguile unwary wankers into believing solo genital pleasure is personally dangerous and socially damning.

OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon: A world-wide synchrony of pleasure to achieve world-wide peace and unity. It certainly can’t hurt. Starts May 1st.

The holy and strange union of Americans and circumcision is at best an agreement of naive partners. The lingering question tormenting me is why the US continues male circumcision. They are so wrong for each other.

Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men by Ritch Savin-Williams is a welcome book to dislodge the rigid stereotypes of male sexual attraction.

Dr. David Ley’s “Ethical Porn for Dicks”, a review for guys. Guys who love porn and guys who struggle with their relationship with porn will want this.